Lady code is the unwritten and sometimes unstated algorithm/ethics that exist between a woman and her finest mates. Merely acknowledged, lady code are the commandments that define the DO’s and DON’T’s of friendship. Whether or not the principles are implicit or specific, they’re typically what could make or break a friendship, together with courting or hooking up with a pal’s Ex.
Any lady who has had a detailed lady pal or group of shut lady mates is aware of there are some issues loyal mates simply don’t do.
In a latest episode of “Love & Hip Hop: New York,” castmember Erica Mena tried to create a love match by trying to assist fellow castmember Tahiry Jose rekindle with ex-boyfriend Joe Budden.
Throughout Monday’s (Jan 6.) episode, issues received difficult between Cyn Santana, ex-boyfriend Joe, ex-girlfriend Mena, and Tahiry. It began after fellow solid members Jonathan Fernandez and Juju C instructed Cyn what Tahiry stated within the earlier episode throughout a karaoke night time. “We had been speaking to Tahiry, Joe’s title got here up,” Jonathan stated to Cyn. Juju later chimed in, “Tahiry instructed us Erica is decided to hook [her] up with [her] ex, Joe.”
“Why is she even mentioning it?” Cyn requested. “What was the aim of that?”
Later in a confessional, Cyn stated, “Joe is a grown man. Whoever Joe loves, he gon’ be with.” Regardless of that, she admitted to being harm and “appalled” at Erica, whom she dated. “We cherished and cared for one another as soon as upon a time however abruptly, Cyn and Joe are now not collectively and Erica is so invested in placing him again along with his ex?” stated Cyn.
“I’m not the one to play, let’s be f***ing clear,” Cyn instructed Jonathan and Juju. Moreover, Jonathan and JuJu revealed to Cyn that Tahiry was “very evasive together with her reply” once they talked about how Joe was receiving the potential for rekindling a romance together with her.
Cyn additionally had some phrases for Tahiry. “Don’t get me began with the ex,” she stated of Tahiry. “She actually been in my footwear earlier than. And that is what we doing? Have a blast. Hold y’all bulls**t over there. Distant from me trigger I’ve different issues to give attention to. Like my music and my son.”
With that being stated, is that this a circle of thoting and nobody cares, or ought to Erica Mena again down from attempting to rekindle another person’s relationship? Did she break the lady code?
“Love & Hip Hop: New York” airs on Mondays at eight P.M. on VH1.